Rose,
My heart is breaking for you right now, I am sorry you are in pain and having problems with Tabatha too.
Her reaction to you going on methadone shows how much she loves you.
She is afraid for you, and obviously only knows the stigmas of methadone.
Would it make it better if we all try to write her and let her know that you are doing a good thing for yourself??
Rose, you should be so proud of your choice, and please don't let Tabathas reaction to methadone change your mind.
You have to do what is right for you, and not do what pleases other people.
If I had a dollar for everytime my kids told me they hated me, and wished i would die, I would be a rich women, lol.
I remeber telling my Mom that too, when i was really pissed at something she did.
Its a natural way for a girl her age to act. she doenst know how to deal with her feelings and verbalize it to you.
When she calms down do you think you can sit her down and talk to her again?????
Can you ask her why her reaction to methadone is so strong??
I am sure if you can get to her real feelings she will tell you she loves you and she is worried about losing you again, mentally and physically.
She needs to know that the methadone is a life saving medication and that you need it to handle your pain.
I am just confused about one thing.
Why is it that the doctor you are seeing wont write you a script for it??
He wants you to go on it, but he doenst want to be in charge of your care?????
You need to ask him why??
Ask him why he wants you to go to a clinic for your meds.
Tell him that the clinic setting is degrading and poorly run and you wnat to be able to manage your pain like anyone else who isnt an addict.
You deserve that treatment, and you should get that.
I will keep the two of you in my prayers that Tabatha realizes soon that you are only trying to live a good life, without suffering from cravings, and the worry of finding your dope man, and you dont want to live with the pain you are in now.
Much love Karen