Right you are, things will get better. But it will take time. The thing is remember the years we were on, and how long have we been sober? So we just can't expect things just get back to norm just like that. First thing first, and the first thing is the mind and the body will follow. The rest will just be coming along in due time.We can't rush it, after lossing so much, we just wants to get it all back. And that kind of stress is not what we need at the moment. At times things lost just can't be found back and we too need to learn to accept our losses.What is past is the past and start a new begining. That is the new life we need, not our old ways.Our old junkie days are over, so lets start anew!And this is just right for the thanks giving now. This is what we really need to give thanks to. a new life, a new begining! And not just because of some turkey! loh.