Dear All... Thank you all so much for your kind thoughts and words... they mean so much... Karen.. this is obviously the post that you were on about that you had replied to.... Thanks... I still have not had a look at the moms site yet... i feel so drained most of the time to join these groups... but i will soon i promise.... my email addy is   [email protected]   you can email me any time... thanks again.. you are all in my prayers also...I will keep you posted on how we are all doing... thanks again.. Sharon xx