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From: NHYankee  (Original Message)Sent: 6/17/2008 11:04 PM
Many of us that work at W-M have had the heart-pounding experience of dealing with a Code Adam.  I've even had the difficult experience of redirecting a non-communcative toddler back to the parent.  This story goes beyond my range of comprehension.  What set of circumstances would lead to a parent abandoning a child?
 
 
A two-year-old Guatemalan boy was left at the Frankfort Walmart with a note in his backpack.  Now, police search for clues to his identity. Martin was found at the Frankfort Walmart Friday in the fabric section.  Inside his backpack Frankfort police discovered clothes and a note written in Spanish.

"They're asking he be taken care of and she was no longer able to care for the child and she was leaving the area," said Frankfort police dectective Jeff Ward.

There are few other clues to his identity, but the note's author, believed to be his mother, said why she could no longer care for Martin.

"She's talking about her husband leaving her a few months ago," said Ward.

The Indiana baby safe haven law does allow parents to leave children less than 30 days old with an emergency medical provider like a hospital or fire department with no questions asked and no consequences.

"Not all families are covered by the Safe Haven. That only really counts for brand new infants," said Tippecanoe County Child Protective Services Director Angela Smith Grossman.

Child Protective Services said parents of older children like Martin need to ask for help, not leave their child in a public place like Walmart where he could be abducted.

"If someone is in need of providing care for their child and is interested in giving their children up that's what we do, try to help families have the resources available to so they don't have to (abandon them)," explained Smith Grossman.

Martin is with a foster family in Clinton County, but police continue to search for his family.

"We try to advertise as widely as possible to get any kind of identifying information and not because we're concerned about consequencing the parents as we are about any medial conditions the child might have," said Smith Grossman.

Frankfort Police said Martin can't communicate any information about his situation, but seems to be doing well with his foster family.

The Walmart is reviewing surveillance tapes to see if the person who left the boy can be identified.  That person could face child neglect charges.  Police are also checking to make sure Martin is not a missing child.  Child Protect Services asks anyone with information about him call 800-800-5556.



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From: MSN Nicknameladysassy2002Sent: 6/18/2008 8:25 AM
Horrible and sad all at the same time....makes you wonder even more about people.  LS

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From: mad martian foreverSent: 6/18/2008 10:28 AM
If the Mom was financially unable to care for her son any more, and she was here illegally, and her husband had left her, she may have felt that she didn't have a  lot of other choices--if she wanted him to survive and be healthy.
She may have been afraid of being jailed, so she didn't go to any legal authorities.  If she was jailed, would her son be any better off?
I'm not saying she did the right thing, by a long shot.  I think she was trying to make the best of a terrible situation.
Imagine how you would feel, if it seemed like the only way for your child to survive, was to abandon him in a store?  It would tear your heart out.
If she didn't really care about him, and just wanted to dump him so she could find a man to support her, the boy is better off any way--IMHO.
 
Mad

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From: MSN NicknameLilAngel37911Sent: 6/18/2008 10:33 PM
So sad.
Surely she had friends of the family she could have left him with.  How traumatizing it must be for the child to be left this way.

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From: MSN Nicknametitian_chickSent: 8/8/2008 10:32 PM
In my experience (we were missionaries in Latin America for several years), family would of course have been the first course of action.  International adoptions are even difficult because in some countries, you must put an ad in the paper looking for some (read ANY) family that may want the child before a kid could be adopted.  (We had friends that adopted twins that had been left at an orphanage and they had to wait in Bolivia for months to see if some third cousin crawled out of the woodwork to claim them.)  Blood is EVERYTHING in the culture.  So culturally speaking, a Latina mom would REALLY have to feel like there was NO other choice.
 
Once after working at a church in Venezuela, a lady handed me her baby that I was gushing over and then quickly spit out something about how he'd be better off in America with me and she had 6 others and could barely feed this one and her husband had died.  I still remember the confusion as I realized that this woman was trying to GIVE me her baby.  Tears in her eyes and when my husband and I were trying to give her back the baby, she actually turned to run away.  Thankfully there was a crowd and she didn't get too far and the pastor was able to talk to her and I didn't end up with a little Venezuelan baby.  But people DO get THAT poor and THAT desperate.  I don't think they're "horrible people" more like it's a horrible situation.
 
Just my opinion and thatand $5.99 will getcha a small coffee at Starbucks.  :)

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From: MSN NicknameLearning2260Sent: 8/9/2008 2:07 PM
The mother has been located. Last week. I'll try to find the story again.

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From: MSN NicknameLearning2260Sent: 8/9/2008 2:55 PM
... identified a boy abandoned in a Wal-Mart and have issued an arrest warrant for his mother. Friday, August 1, 2008. ... of the mother of a child abandoned in a ...
www.theindychannel.com/news/17066908/<WBR>detail.html - Cached
  • FRANKFORT, Ind. -- A mother abandons her 2-year-old boy in a Wal-Mart store, leaving him with a backpack full of toys, ... Child Protection Services is caring for ...
    www.theindychannel.com/news/16622307/<WBR>detail.html - Cached

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    From: kodakchromerSent: 8/13/2008 9:56 PM
    That is just sad.

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