EnglishTeacher,
I can just see all of what you described happening in my mind's eye....not at all funny at the time but kinda laughable now. You are probably very thankful that things ended up that way or God only knows what MAJOR upsets would have happened. I only wish more women who find themselves involved with a married man would take heed of lessons...
Do I sound bitter? I am! A married woman took away my first husband. She carried on an affair with him while I was pregnant with two of our children. I still blame her more than I do him because we all know (no offense, Texoma or any other guy in here) that they are led by their hormones (to put it nicely!) I don't think I've ever gotten over it. BTW, she got a divorce during the affair and then put intense pressure on him to do the same. They are still married. It's a long, sad story that has had horrible consequences on my children as well as me.