OOOPsss.forgot to answer the last one...........my ambition..........
is to watch you three lads have a circle jerk........then me , Mary and Fi will put on a wee show for you, proving that once again neither of you have the stamina to get all worked up after your initial "male bonding" experience <grin>
In truth though.my ambition is to stay happy & healthy for a few good years yet, and hopefully be able to retire before I'm too old to enjoy anything. I want to see my kids achieve their goals, AND see my granchildren drive their parents mad......<evil grin>