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| From: junebug | Sent: 1/17/2007 4:45 PM | | A place to chat....yes, and a kitchen to decorate. Such a comfort. I just want to thank you both for responding so deep in detail to your plights . I am once again in a place of quandry. I was so sure on saturday night when he blurted out *<I wish I knew what provoked it:) You should be single! Sorry we interupted YOUR life!...Well that was it in my book. He now was gonna have to deal with HIS BEING SINGLE ....I was surely calling a lawyer on Monday......But as usual, he woke up the next morning like he did nothing wrong, accusing me of over reacting...the day was quiet but polite. I was talked off the ledge with no discussion about the night before. Then Sunday night at ten pm, he started belittling my son and when I didnt agree with him he started telling me that we make him sick....WE make him sick...because a 17yr old boy has a hard time being belittled....WE make him sick because he blows in with condescending questions at the eleventh hour of the weekend and wants to know things that he should have known for months or yrs.....I still said nothing...went to my sons room and told him that the man was his dad and deserved a civil answer no matter how silly he thought the question was. When I came out of the room I looked at my husband and started to say ,,,,,,,,,,,You know......and he laced in to me....that for 25yrs he did nothing but his best for me, that I was ungrateful and not nice to him...I listened, turned, and went to bed trying not to react to his foolish behaviour. We havent had a civil word since...and he says "at the end of this I hope you know how hard I tried." Ok, you are all reading this and saying, there are two sides the every story ....and you prob are wondering how mean I really am to him....fact is that I am soooo hardened. I am exhausted...I am done...but I just cant say the words right now...I need to wait till the boy gets his colllege things sorted out..and even then maybe I wont make a move. But this is just to fill you all in..not that I am looking for pity or a quick fix. I am looking to shed this dread....I am grateful that I have finally somewhere I can go to express it..This is a private group isnt it??? god I am so paranoid....ok....deep breath, as I go back and reread the posts and feel the love and joy of a place to call your own and a man who appreciates a fine woman...Love to all who read this and feel free to tell me to buck the hell up..... | |
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