thanks for the replies , is appreciated. Mmm be a few  eyebrows  raised  =P  not so much  for the  the  actual  age  difference  but  more because i can and often do look alot  younger than i actually  am.   Standing  joke is with shorts  n a pokemon t shirt i could pass as  12  and  get  childs  tickets to  things XD haha  yet i can rerember the trouble i had trying to to  convince you all i wasnt really  an old man =P