The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Beers > > When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in > a day > are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers > > A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front > of > him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty > mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the > students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. > > The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar > He > shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the > golf > balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed > it was. > > The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of > course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar > was > full. The students responded with an unanimous, "yes"/' > > The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the > entire > contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the > sand. The > students laughed. > > 'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to > recognize > that this jar > represents your life. The golf balls are the important things---your > family, > your children, > your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything > else > was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. > > The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and > your > car. > > The sand is everything else---the small stuff. 'If you put the sand into > the > jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf > balls. > The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small > stuff > you will never have room for the things that are important to you. > > 'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend > time > with your children . Spend time with your parents. Visit with > grandparents. Take > time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another > 18. > There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take > care of > the golf balls first---the things that really matter. Set your priorities. > The > rest is just sand.' > > One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer > represented. > > The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.' > > The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, > there's > always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.' E-mail from a friend.
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