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☼Philosophy : How to avoid marrying a Sociopath
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From: slywench  (Original Message)Sent: 8/7/2008 8:56 PM
There are many conclusions I am coming to by reading these books about Sociopath's who have commited horrific crimes.   I am now reading a book, almost finished, by Ann Rule, it's called  "A Rose for Her Grave."    Ann Rule is a former Seattle police officer.
 
This book is mostly about Sociopath's in the Northwest.  Like Randy G. Roth, from Lynwood, Washington.  Or Charles Campbell from the same surrouding area.  Clearwater, Washington.
 
It seems Sociopath's will persue a woman with all types of gifts like bouqets of roses, jewelry, etc.   They will make the woman beleive she is the most desirable and beautiful and the center of their lives.  They will romance the woman into a fast whirlwind romance with marriage too soon.
In some cases, a marriage in the same month they meet.   Suddendly after the honeymoon, the husband tells his wife he isn't really into sex.  He will say his medication blood pressure medicine or whatever takes away his desire.  Or in this case with Randy G. Roth, he told his wives his visectomy was acting up.   So the newly married wife realizes she won't have much of a sex life with her new husband.   Strange indeed, how sexual they are before the marriage, or in the very beginning of the marriage.
 
Why is this, because Randy G. Roth was having sex outside of his marriage already, not because his visectomy was acting up or his high blood pressure meds were taking away his sex drive.
 
There seems to be a connection here.   He would have insurance policies on his wives, then he kill them.   He got away with it for years, because it was made to look like accidents, one wife he pushed of Beacon's Cliff, he said she slipped and fell.  He received $110,000 for that, and social security checks of $600 a month for the kids.   He always was interested in women who had kids,
His 4th wife met her death in a drowning accident on a lake in a raft, he received $365,000 for that one.   Then he was engaged to another woman, but he dropped her when he found out because she had cancer once could not be given life insurance.
 
The pattern he had was he not interested in sex with them, after he got married to them.
 
More on this later, still reading the book.


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From: slywenchSent: 8/8/2008 8:13 AM
Randy does not 'love' Cindy,
Randy Hates Cindy. . . .
Randy Hates Cindy's Face Make-Up,
Randy Hates Cindy's Blush
Randy Hates Cindy's Lipstick;
Randy Hates Cindy's Blonde Hair
Randy Hates Cindy's Ugly toes--
they're the ugliest toes he's
ever seen.
Randy Hates all of Cindy's
5 or 6 different perfumes.
Randy hates Cindy's cold feet
Randy hates Cindy's cold hands.
Randy hates Cindy's fingernails.
Randy hates Cindy's dolls in every
room.
Randy hates Cindy's Pink Feminine
things in every room.
Randy hates Cindy's Peach
feminine things in every room.
 
Randy hates Cindy's pictures.
Randy hates Cindy's Furniture,
Randy hates Cindy's drawers
because they aren't real drawers.
Randy hates the way Cindy
drives because she'll wreck
the cars and trucks.
Randy hates the way Cindy
cooks most of the time.
Randy hates the way
Cindy buys groceries too
many times every week and
spends too much money.
Randy hates the swamp that
Cindy made him move to.
Randy hates Cindy's hose,
Randy hates Cindy's things,
Randy hates Cindy's money,
 
Randy hates Cindy's
independent nature.
Randy hates the way Cindy
grinds her teeth.
Randy hates the way Cindy picks up his papers all
the time.
Randy hates the way
Cindy uses all the hot
water to fill the huge
tub for a bath.
Randy hates that Cindy
drinks coffee.
Randy hates that Cindy
eats more than all of
the boys.
Randy hates how
Cindy decorates a house--
Randy hates Cindy
shopping.

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From: slywenchSent: 8/8/2008 8:19 AM
Randy hates Cindy
leaving the house at
all.
Randy hates Cindy driving
the Trooper.
Randy hates that Cindy
likes to eat!!  Because
she'll get fat.
Randy hates that Cindy
made a Cookie for
Valentine's Day & not a
cake.
Randy hates if Cindy
wants to help or volunteer anywhere.
Randy hates Cindy having
Lori over to our house.
Randy hates coming home
from work instead of shopping or doing
other things.
Randy hates not being able
to go shopping alone all
the time!
Randy hates telling
Cindy where he goes.
Randy hates Cindy's
monthly thing and
putting up with her
each month.

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From: MSN Nicknameslslady10Sent: 8/10/2008 7:56 PM
Excellent book, Sly. The guy was really an expert at playing women. Ann Rule has always been one of my favorite authors.

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