I tried to join as slywench, but Mulitpy had problems with it not sending me confirmation email etc.
So I joined again as AnneGrey and old nic of mine. I don't have any problems at Mulitply with my AnneGrey nic, as I've made a group for myself already and joined some other groups.
I applied at PMELO the other day, it's still in pending, probably because you don't know AnneGrey is me slywench.