Hi Lexi,

 

I understand how you feel. I have days that I don't understand and just have to cry. It is okay to cry sometimes, you just have to let it out. I hug from my mom helps and we talk. I try to think of all the good things we have because of my moms illness.

 

I know that sounds strange but there is some good things in all things. It takes practice but when it becomes a habbit to look for the good, every thing gets easier to deal with.

 

Peace out,

 

Hi Lexi,

 

I am Summer, I am so glad that you posted.  I know that it really hurts you to see your mommy in such great pains.  We never know why these things happen, sometimes they just do.  I'm sorry that you are crying right now, I wish I could come and give you a big hug but I am so far away.  So I am going to send you kitty hugs from my Buffy right straight to your heart.  I hope things get easier for you as time goes by, I know it seems like it takes so long for things to happen and it's so hard honey to wait and wait.  I want you to know though that when you need to talk that I will always be here dear to listen, you hang in there and stay strong and keep your chin up. Things will get better dear, I promise.

 

Love, Summer and Buffy

 

 

p.s. good things like being able to spend more time with her because she doesn't work, all the funny moments we have when she falls or can't get up from floor (she laughs at herself and says it okay if we laugh with her just not at her) etc.

 

 

Hello Lexi,

 

I am Kat, KJ's mom. Katy and I talk alot and I try very hard to understand what she goes through.

 

I know you girls have alot on your shoulders and it hurts my heart because all little girls should be light and fancy free. But sometimes for some reason life throws us curves.

 

But I am sure that your mom feels the same way about you that I feel about KJ.

I am so thankful to have her by my side and holding my hand on very bad days..I get strength from seeing her smiling face when I am hurting. She is such a big help that words cannot say how much I am thankful for her.

 

Like I said your mom most likely feels the same way....and forgive us girls we don't say it nearly often enough.

 

Big Hugs to both you girls,

 

Kat

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