Last week was good and bad news for me. I had a
physiologist
out sorry can't spell it. Anyway it was recommended by the stroke disability team, to get me to accept what i can do rather than what i can't. So saw him he felt there was no need for him being out and it was everyone else that needed councilling.lol thought he got that right.
Told him i should be allowed to go out on my own and i was willing to compromise like i would have my cell phone and i would inform family where i would be,and that it would be best for one of the family to collect me wherever i went. As if i get tired my balance is not good.He agreed with me he said i never took medical advise and i have done better than thought was possible,so i must have done something right.But he did point out it would still be againt medical advise.
So had meeting with my 3 sons. They where not happy of my descion to go out on my own and said they would not be pleased with my husband if i did this,they do get on but this leaves me in a dilema,i would not want my husband blamed for what i want to do,but i do want some kind of independence.My sons are not prepared to comprimise, and my husband is on there side so that don't help. i know i could manage if i'm sensible. sorry its so long