Niddy I don't think you are lazy at all. I agree with both Gero and Juls. Maybe it is time to see if your meds need to be adjusted. But and this is the part I really think is important, you do so very much!!!! Do me a favor for one day write down everything you do, no need to show the list to anyone but you so really write down everything you do for your family and you and others for one 24 hr period. Then look at it. Read it. Did you need to energy you thought you wanted to clean house with to just make it through the day? You take care of everyone and everything and that is wonderful. But let's see what the first list says. Then make a second list. All the things you think you should do in one day, include everything that you do and don't do everything that you feel you should do in one 24 hr period. Now look at both lists. Mark the amount of time it took or takes to do each item and be real. Give yourself 15 min. to do a 15 min job! Then add up the hours subtract that number from 24 (be sure to have at least 6-7 hours for sleep!) Now im me and tell me how many hours in a day you need. If you are wasting time you will see it. But I think more you will see you are so busy that the least important things slide. Clean house what is the point with kids LOL. The things that are important to you, write your book, keep a journal, excersize, eat right, you will now be able to see where it can fit in. I will help if you want. It is always easier to see wasted or less important items when they are not your minutes :) I hope this helps and sorry for the delay :( I love you :) |
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