I see Wicca as no different than any other group. If I were going to bash a group it would most likely be the Catholics.
Therein lies the difference between "us" and "them". We don't bash anyone for their religion, nor do we bash any religion. It all goes back to personal preference. Some choose to be this religion....some choose to be that one. We don't care who is what and we don't bash them for their choice. We respect them for making a choice even though it is not with us.