Dear ShiftingWind Sir
  
 i have tried to find the words to describe my friendship with ery. Whenever i saw ery sign on i smiled. i have found this poem which i think describes my thoughts.  ery was unique, and i will treasure memories of her forever.
  
   
 People always come into your life for<o:p></o:p>
 A REASON,<o:p></o:p>
 A SEASON,<o:p></o:p>
 OR A LIFETIME.<o:p></o:p>
 When you figure out which it is,<o:p></o:p>
 You know exactly what to do...<o:p></o:p>
 When someone is in your life<o:p></o:p>
 FOR A REASON,<o:p></o:p>
 It is usually to meet a need you have expressed<o:p></o:p>
 Outwardly or inwardly...<o:p></o:p>
 They have come to assist you <o:p></o:p>
 Through a difficulty,<o:p></o:p>
 To provide you with guidance and support,<o:p></o:p>
 To aid you physically, <o:p></o:p>
 Emotionally, or spiritually...<o:p></o:p>
 They may seem like a Godsend,<o:p></o:p>
 And they are...<o:p></o:p>
 They are there<o:p></o:p>
 For a reason you need them to be...<o:p></o:p>
 Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, <o:p></o:p>
 Or at an inconvenient time,<o:p></o:p>
 This person will say or do something <o:p></o:p>
 To bring the relationship to an end...<o:p></o:p>
 Sometimes they die.<o:p></o:p>
 Sometimes they walk away.<o:p></o:p>
 Sometimes they act up or out <o:p></o:p>
 And force you to take a stand...<o:p></o:p>
 What we must realize <o:p></o:p>
 Is that our need has been met,<o:p></o:p>
 Our desire fulfilled;<o:p></o:p>
 Their work is done...<o:p></o:p>
 The prayer you sent up<o:p></o:p>
 Has been answered<o:p></o:p>
 And it is now time to move on...<o:p></o:p>
 When people come into your life <o:p></o:p>
 FOR A SEASON,<o:p></o:p>
 It is because your turn has come <o:p></o:p>
 To share, grow, or learn...<o:p></o:p>
 They may bring you <o:p></o:p>
 An experience of peace,<o:p></o:p>
 Or make you laugh...<o:p></o:p>
 They may teach you <o:p></o:p>
 Something you have never done.<o:p></o:p>
 They usually give you <o:p></o:p>
 An unbelievable amount<o:p></o:p>
 Of joy...<o:p></o:p>
 Believe it!<o:p></o:p>
 It is real!<o:p></o:p>
  But, <o:p></o:p>
 ONLY FOR A SEASON...<o:p></o:p>
 And like Spring turns to Summer<o:p></o:p>
 And Summer to Fall, <o:p></o:p>
 the season eventually ends.<o:p></o:p>
 LIFETIME RELATIONSHIPS<o:p></o:p>
 Teach you a lifetime of lessons;<o:p></o:p>
 Those things you must build upon<o:p></o:p>
 In order to have <o:p></o:p>
 A solid emotional foundation...<o:p></o:p>
 Your job is to accept the lesson,<o:p></o:p>
 Love the person/people (anyway);<o:p></o:p>
 And put what you have learned<o:p></o:p>
 To use in all other relationships<o:p></o:p>
 And areas of your life...<o:p></o:p>
 It is said that love is blind <o:p></o:p>
 But friendship is clairvoyant...<o:p></o:p>
  Thank you for being a part of my life...<o:p></o:p>
 Thank you, indeed - My most special friend
 belladonna (barbara)