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Poems : As its Downs Syndrome week.....
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From: MSN Nicknamebettylishious  (Original Message)Sent: 6/7/2007 9:22 AM
I thought I would share a poem that was sent to me:
 
THE RIGHT WORDS
 
I'd like you to choose carefully, the words you might say
When you see my child in the general day to day
 
He is a darling boy who happens to have Down's syndrome
The result of a small chemical accident and an extra chromosome
 
But dont call him Downs Baby, A Downs or Downs Boy
It makes him sound like a different breed, an animal or stuffed toy!
 
And please dont make judgements like a book by its cover,
Like all other children, hes very different from any other,
 
Dont offer some generalised statement thats patronising and might go....
He'll be so loving and cuddly
How on earth do you know?!
 
It might not be easy to say words that dont offend
So just be honest and considerate so together we can mend
Societys choice of words - because we need to emphasise that
Your words do make a difference to
the way we feel inside.
 
So lets get it right
He is a boy with Downs
 
Not a Downs boy
Remember the other way around!!
 
Hes a human like you, with just a little bit more
And if we were all the same,
Wouldnt life be a bore?
 
Do please share this poem with others that you know
So down the road to 'thoughtful language'
We can all humbly go
 
And if you're a professional or involved in any way,
You're in the forefront of our campaign,
Get it right
 
WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!
 
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From: silverwoodSent: 10/18/2007 9:30 PM
this is lovely,
I had a warming experience with a downs child recently ..my first and only. I'd guess his age to be around fifteen. I've been on crutches and was painfully hauling myself to the checkout at tescos. this is how our converstaion went
him: has your foot been chopped off ?
Mother: hush now, don't  bother people with questions.
me:( with a smile at the ma): , no, it hasn't been chopped off, its just in a plaster because I fell and hurt it, it will get better soon.
Him:  have some grapes , it will make it better.
.. then he handed me the grapes that were in my trolly. I couldnt help laughing at his slightly off- kilter gesture of kindness, he grinned all over his face, then he high fived me and left with his mum. A nice moment that really cheered me up

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From: silverwoodSent: 10/20/2007 8:52 PM
 I should have typed 'a child with downs' . I don't have any previous experience of downs ....and the words were intended to be discriptive of the situation,
not the condition. Apologies, no offence was intended whatsoever.

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From: MSN Nickname陇膼苇苇陇巍臋臋陇臑褦褦陇Sent: 10/29/2007 12:19 AM
lovely poem Betty, it is too easy to pigeon hole people with a name or how they "should" be.
Lovely story Silver, I hope the grapes worked,lol.

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