Hi Harryxx
(Sorry havent replied to your email...will do so shortly....was setting up the chatroom all last night)
Dont worry about those red alert thingys...they are just 'busy' signs..You too can have one if you click on on of the buttons under the chat window...
Checlk all the buttons out and the 'Options' etc...you can send sounds...change your font colour and set your status...(brb..busy etc)
Work beckons...have to rush....so dont worry its well moderated...)
Lizzy