I have seen this happen so much in Christianity. We attack each other over insignificant things and people are dying and going to hell. We turn and devour one another over things that just don't matter. I am not being unbiblical at all. If you knew who you were talking to you would know how ludicrous that claim is.  I would surmise that you are a fundamentalist. I am as well in that I believe the Word of God to be perfect and without error. I am not a political fundamentalist that strains at gnats and argues over things that just honestly don't matter. Jesus does weep over our sin because God weeps over it as well. To say that Jesus didn't care about Judas because He already knew what he was going to do is wrong. Christ cares about all of us even those that will never accept Him. God would have that none are condemned but that all come to saving knowledge of Him through Christ. God wanted Judas to come to that saving knowledge as well, but knew He wouldn't. Start concentrating on what's truly important please. Whether Jesus wept over Judas or not is not something to break fellowship over. Believe the Bible but don't distort it's message by straining at things that just aren't important. A relationship with Christ is what is important. Concentrate on helping others get to that!