Sometimes without meaning to, we can try to hard to be. At times we know its only in friendship, but what we fail to realize is, sometimes others do not know this. Sometimes those can appear pushy and maybe need time to regroup.
The games people play. Its bad when we or others have to hide are pretend with those we feel are friends, when its innocence and usually well meaning. Sometimes those are just trying to hard to forget the day, or the past.
Sometimes honesty is best. At least in friendship, if there is one.