Ok is everyone ready......................................................
This is my oldest daughter, she's 35 now, where to start describing her.
missdaisy; yes she is superficial, to this day most people don't know who she really is. When this picture was taken was a couple months after she had my grandson. She was told she probably would never be able to get pg because of a car accident. her boyfriend is abusive and there was alot of crap going on. She is very stubborn, judges people, and is an alcoholic, dry, not sober. Karen is a name of friend of hers...........
Wildcat; At the time of the picture her boyfriend thought he had the right to hit her, and they were always verbally fighting also. I got in to it with the boyfriend and told him if he ever hit my daughter again he better be on his way to hell before I found out. I was always surprised that she got into an abusive situation,
Lightwalker; You have picked up on the whole family. She has abusive, nasty mouth and talks to me the way my mother used to. She has hurt me alot over the yrs and is the reason why I moved 400 miles away. Every thing I believe in she tells me it's stupid. Although I hate to admit it, for the first few yrs of her life, I was a terrible, abusive mom as well. I was always afraid I would turn out like my mother and did do some of the same things. She can't stand my mother because she remembers seeing how my mother would talk to me and treat me , even tho I was in my 40's when I stopped talking to my mother. She doesn't have many friends, she has always judged people, and believed she was right about everything. She isn't married, but lives with her boyfriend, been together now 12 yrs. He is still verabally emotional abusive, but I can't do anything other than stand by. She had my first grandson. She isn't a bad mom, she tries, but does have my mother's mouth.
I do love my daughter, whose name is Desi(erri) I just have always been a mom that accepts my kids have faults and make dumb choices from time to time. She has stopped me from being close to my grandson, and I've learned to accept that, as she has the fear that I will love him more than her, or he will love me more than her.
You all did amazing, as you picked up on her as well as alot of family history. But as we all carry our abuse issues with us until we learn to let go.
So how do you all think?
I won't post another picture until tues, as this daughter and grandson will be here this after noon for a couple days.
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