We request that ALL MEMBERS:Please read the following and acknowledge with a reply that you have done so and understand the rules ~ if you have any questions feel free to ask!   ~Please request permission from Management before posting LINKS~ no advertising or soliciting is allowed RULES TO CHAT BY   As much as we would like to think that we could run our chatroom without rules, the reality is that there are always a few that are not respectful of others with negative antics disrupt the chatroom and ruin it for the other members.Therefore the following rules must be followed or the manager or assistant manager will be within their rights to 'Boot' those causing problems.....they will be asked to 'Re-Read the Chatroom Rules' and adhere to same or will be 'Booted from the chatroom' .  This will be your one and only warning we will not be able to allow you to participate in Chats again until you and management have had a discussion in e-mail to resolve the problem you may be having and to ensure you understand the rules. CHATROOM    RULES:-  Always be courteous and respectful of others.Do not engage in or participate in arguments.Negativity, Sarcasm and Judgemental behavior will not be tolerated.Do not try to monopolize the chatroom, give others a chance to give their opinions, ask their questions, etc.  without interruption.Experienced members are asked to use their discretion when discussing topics that new members may not have knowledge of or experienced themselves ex: subjects that relate to negative dark experiences, you can well imagine these can instill fear and mislead someone not having knowledge of it when they draw their own conclusion Post on the Im in chat thread(keep at top) to let other's know you want to chat. You may need to be patient and keep checking in on the chat room to see if someone has joined you.The chatroom is open 24/7 for all members~please acknowledge that you understand and will adhere to these rules by Clicking on & signing on the New Member's Board Thank You Enjoy! See you There! Reader & Readee Rules Please not request a reading until you have been active in the site, on the message boards  this gives everyone a chance to   to get to know you.  It also gives you a chance to get to know the readers and other member's whom you can learn and share with to help you with your spiritual growth.Please understand that anyone giving readings is doing so by choice.  They are graciously willing to share their gifts by reading for you in the manner that is best suited to them.Those sharing their gifts by doing readings for you can not do so on demand.  They will as soon as possible give you your reading when the Energy is there for them to be  'Able to Focus and Receive' for you.  Only then can they provide you with the guidance they receive through spirit that is meant for you.Understand that the information given to you in your reading, be it on a message board or in the chatroom is "Guidance for you on your path" the reader cannot give you any absolutes regarding any of your questions, they will give Only What they Receive for you.  It is up to you to do your part to be openminded, to focus and take time to resonate what is said and how it applies to you and your situation.It is unrealistic to expect a reader to give you 'yes or no or dates and times' answers.  Nothing is written in stone.  As We All Have Free Will....it is Each of Us that will affect the outcome of what is given in our reading, this is why it is important for you to do your part to use the information to your benefit.Please do not ASK MEDICAL QUESTIONS.Dealing with one's health is extremely important and you should only do so actively with a Physician it is irresponsible on the readee or reader's part to take or give medical advice.~medical issues can be discussed on the message board in an informative format for to receive advice or to request prayer's for healing~It is Very Important that you give the reader 'FeedBack' regarding your reading.  Acknowledge that you have read it, indicate generally how it resonates for you.Post Reading Requests on the Reading Board   the first available reader will do so as they are able---please be patient and provide feedback to your reader on these boards.You may request one from a specific reader if you choose on that readers  board.Readings may occur spontaneously in chat as we have mediums in the site that will connect with the spirit of loved ones crossed over during chat's at times.  Those able to do so will let you know in chat otherwise a request by you will be replied to on the reading board.NO ONE under 18 years of age is allowed to have a reading done, so please do not ask for a reading if you are under the age of 18.  NO ONE under 18 years of age is allowed to offer readings to the other members.~this is a disclaimer for this site in the event that the above is not adhered to~ All New Members~Message acknowledgement....click below  New Members ~Management~