I was thinking about you the other day and wondered how things were going. I find it amazing to this day how parents will treat their children. It sounded familar as that is the way my mother always talked to me. Of course they are not happy about being grand parents, they are selfish, children take away from their wants. They can't get out of themselves. They are afraid that people will judge them for the *&*&^%$ that they really are.
I am going to draw a card for each one of your questions. I am using a deck from Doreen Virtue, PH.D. called Magical Unicorns. Hope they will help some.
1) Water, Drink more water, and eat foods with water in them, such as fresh fruits and veggies.To feel good, your body needs to have water and foods that have water in them, such as fresh fruit and veggies. This card asks you to drink a lot more water as a way to fuel your energy. When your body doesn't have enough water, you may feel tired and not be able to think well. So, carry a water botle with you, and drink from it alot.When you drink water and eat right, you'll have a lot more energy and geel happier. Stay away from foods that have sugar. Even though sugar tastes goo, notice how your body feels after you eat it, You'll find that your body gets tired soon after you eat sweetened foods. A better way to enjoy this taste is to eat ripe fruits.
This card can also mean that swimming or bathing in water would make you feel happy and healthy. You can also pray over your drinking water and food, and the prayers will make your meals even more healthful and tasty.
By eating and drinking fruits, veggies and water, your skin will look good, you'll fee good and other people will soon ask what your secret it.
I would find this to mean to take care of your self, not just emotionally/spiritually but the body as well. Then you will be ready to move forward with a healthy you all the way around, and a healthy relationship.
2) Thankful....Think about the peopleand things you feel grateful for. Gratitude warms your heart with good feelings that are healthy for your mind and body. You can make yourself feel better by making a list of everything and everone you're thankful for. Gratitude replaces sadness, and makes everything go better.
Gratitude is such a powerful way to make your life better that it's almost magical. Everyone loves a thankful person. They want to be friends with, give to and help a person who says Thank You. When you say thank you and really mean it, you find more reasons to feel gratitude.
People who aren't grateful or who have self pity actually make themselves sad. They can't understand why other people avoid them. and why they don't receive many gifts. They take away their own power because they believe that life doesn't give them much. But if you count your blessings and think about all the reasons you have to feel grateful, then you'll ss how generous life really is. To get more out of life, stop and feel grateful for all that you're received so far. Then get ready to feel gratitude for countless blessings that are coming to you now.
You have so much going on right now. This being a middle child, they have the tendency to feel left out. Maybe you just need to remind him how grateful you are that he is in your life, that you love him just for being him. Remind him that he has alot to be grateful for also, and that you are there for him when he is ready to talk.
3) Try something new.....You'll only know that you can do something if you try.
One reason why you may feel bored is that you're doing the same things over and over. To feel excited about life, you need to try new things. This card asks you to think of something that you've always wanted to do, and then learn about it. Ask your family or friends to take you alson on their adventures.
When you try something new, you may feel funny at first, like it won't work. But just do your best to enjoy yourself, and don't worry about being perfect, especially at the start. The more you can relax and have fun, the better everything will go.
So, sign up for a class where you'll learn something new, or maybe take up a new sport. Stretch yourself beyond what you think you can do. You may find that you really enjoy this new activity. and you'll most likely make new friends. You'll also find that you will lean new skills that will help you in other areas of your life, too.
Maybe he is trying to tell you he isn't interested in hockey anymore. Maybe you need to open up a conversation with him, just asking if he is happy or does he want to try something new. He is trying to figure out where he wants to go right now, but feels he is just suppose to know.
4) Imagine..What would you see, feel, think, and hear if your wish came true? I think this says it all. Stop and concentrate on your wish and than listen to your body and all the things that go on. When you imagine your dream coming true,and notice all your feelings, etc you help make it happen.
If your son is unhappy going to his fathers for any reason, I would get ahold of your lawyer and tell him what is going on. The kids have to have some rights to. Finances are such a problem all the way around. I'm still working on the believing it will happen, I believe it will just the timing.
5) I could not get a definate answer on this question. I feel the baby will be ok.
The last card I did for you was....DECIDE... It's time to clearly make a decision about what you want. It means to decide where you want to go in the future and start seeing and believing that is where you are going to be.
I hope this helps you in some little way. Mystic