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From: MSN NicknameJenLNguyen  (Original Message)Sent: 7/25/2008 9:32 PM
I've been rethinking about my dad, maybe I'm a bit too harsh on him.

Just recently he told my sister and I that he and mom are on the verge of breaking up/divorce. He said that it kind of deals with my mom and how she wants to be near her family and how unfair it is for him to be so far from his family. So they need to strike a balance between visits with their family? My mom, dad, sis, and I also live with our grandparents from my mom's side of the family. I think my dad said that my grandfolks are driving him crazy? As if he can't stand them?

I may dislike my dad's behavior from time to time but... the thought of a divorce is unsettling. I guess I do love my dad, somewhere deep down inside. And my mom is currently going through menopause... Could that explain her rash thinking? Her moods might be getting the best of her?

My parents are thinking of moving by next year in the summer. Could it be that they just want to start anew? To get away from the grandfolks and focus in on our family? How are things going to be with my family? How can I deal with this situation? Please help, any replies would be wonderful.

Thanks again,
Jen


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From: missdaisySent: 10/17/2008 8:18 AM
hi jen....
 
i am not a reader...well i can read some people but not consistantly....
 
however, i will say that living with inlaws is difficult..... menopause is difficult.... and yes you can be irritable and difficult with moods swings......and maybe starting fresh without the influence of inlaws is a good thing
 
divorce is tough regardless when it happens...whether you are young or old.....just remember one thing.....your parents love you and this had nothing to do with you!.... divorce is never the child's fault.......it just happens at times you jsut can't get along as a couple anymore.....
 
focusing on their family might be what they need and maybe the move will help.....i would say be understanding.....respect the decisions they make..... and try real hard not to take sides...both your parents need your love!
 
good luck and keep your chin up
 
Jackie