hi jen....
i am not a reader...well i can read some people but not consistantly....
however, i will say that living with inlaws is difficult..... menopause is difficult.... and yes you can be irritable and difficult with moods swings......and maybe starting fresh without the influence of inlaws is a good thing
divorce is tough regardless when it happens...whether you are young or old.....just remember one thing.....your parents love you and this had nothing to do with you!.... divorce is never the child's fault.......it just happens at times you jsut can't get along as a couple anymore.....
focusing on their family might be what they need and maybe the move will help.....i would say be understanding.....respect the decisions they make..... and try real hard not to take sides...both your parents need your love!
good luck and keep your chin up
Jackie