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Spirituality : "Why You Don't Have What You Really Want"
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From: MSN Nicknameno1chef  (Original Message)Sent: 10/2/2006 10:43 AM
"The Saboteur Within"
By Dr Robert Anthony


"Why You Don't Have What You Really Want"

Lets face it, most of us from time to time feel that life is just
one big struggle with a series of never ending problems. Yet the truth is that life does not have to be this way. In fact, it can
be just the opposite. Life is not about struggle and overcoming
problems. Life is about pursuing and creating what we truly
desire in an easy, stress-free manner.

Is there something in your life that you want, but it seems to
elude you?

Why is it such a struggle to create the things we want?

In short, if you don't have what you want (you name it) your
subconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you.

To put it simply, you want something and it doesn't.

For example you may say, "I want more money.", but your dominant subconscious belief may be, "Earning the amount of money I want is very difficult".

Notice anything different about these two statements?

They are going in different directions. So after years of
frustrating and contradictory messages you still don't have what you want.

What is really happening is that your conscious and subconscious are almost always in conflict. You consciously say, "I want more money" and then after listening, your subconscious says, "No matter what you do, it is too difficult to create that amount of money". As a result there is no agreement between your conscious and subconscious. When this happens they cancel each other out and give up on assisting you to create what you would like to have in your life.

What is critical to understand is the competition, conflicting
agendas, and disharmony between your conscious and subconscious is keeping what you from having what you desire.

Why?

Because when your conscious and subconscious are not in agreement they produce negative emotion. And it is that negative emotion or energy that attracts the things you don't want.

Let me explain to you what is really happening.

Every thought is received by the brain, which is the organ of the conscious mind. It is here that it is subjected to our power of reasoning. When the conscious or objective mind has been
satisfied that the thought is true, it is sent to the subconscious mind to be brought into the world of reality through
quantum physics or the law of attraction.

It is no longer susceptible to any argument whatsoever. The
subconscious mind cannot argue. It only acts. It accepts the
conclusions of the conscious mind as final. This is the point at
which the uncreated becomes the created, the universal becomes individualized, and the invisible becomes visible.

Put simply, every thought that you think has its own energetic
vibrational frequency. That thought is impressed into your
subconscious mind. Then, through the Law of Attraction it will
energetically attract another person, place, thing or
circumstance that has a vibrational match or is vibrating at the
same frequency.

Your subconscious mind cooperates complete with your conscious mind when it understands and agrees with what you consciously want. In other words, when you conscious and subconscious are not in conflict.

When you feel negative emotions they are signals from your
subconscious that you are not in harmony with what you desire and this creates emotional energy blocks within your electromagnetic system.

You are not alone. Conflict, manifested as an emotional energy
block, is common in almost everyone.

Have you ever wonder why...

Athletes get into slumps?

This defies normal logic. There is no physical reason for an
athlete to perform below par. He or she is the same highly
trained athlete before, after and during the slump. Yet, no
matter how highly skilled, all athletes go through this
consistently throughout their careers. Why?

Addictions are so hard to overcome?

Most addicts want to be free of their destructive patterns. They know, and will often admit, that their addiction is costing them their health, their relationships, their money and even their life! Yet they continue with it. Why?

Depression is so hard to overcome?

Depression is one of the most difficult psychological issues to
handle. It is not unusual for an individual who suffers from
depression to go through years of expensive therapy and not make much progress. Why?

Healing sometimes takes so long?

We have a lingering cold that just won't go away, a headache or pain that keep coming back again and again or a sprain or broken bone that takes forever to heal.

Why?

We self-sabotage ourselves?

We try to change our behaviors or become more successful in our business or career yet we often manage to fall back into our previous "comfort zones" with little or no real progress.

Why?

The reason we have these experiences is that we do not correct the negative emotion IN THE MOMENT. Regardless of what you have read or heard, you cannot correct this through positive thinking. You must go BEYOND POSITIVE THINKING to get rid of the "Saboteur Within". I call this "Right Thinking". It is right because it is based on truth, not illusion.

Here is something you can do right now.

Notice when you are feeling any negative emotion or conflict.
That is you "inner guidance system" telling you that you are not in harmony with your desire. This is your first clue.

IN THAT MOMENT you MUST self-correct. Change your FEELING right then and there because how you FEEL as a result of a thought is what causes the negative emotion. The negative emotion then causes the conflict. And the conflict attracts more of the things you DON'T WANT!

So, if you do nothing else, remember that you MUST correct and STOP the negative attraction in the MOMENT if you are serious about getting rid of the "Saboteur Within." That will clear the way for you conscious and subconscious to work in harmony to bring your desire.


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From: MSN NicknameJade12_Sent: 10/3/2006 3:08 AM
Wonderful enlightenment!  Thank you so much Maria.
Why?

The reason we have these experiences is that we do not correct the negative emotion IN THE MOMENT. Regardless of what you have read or heard, you cannot correct this through positive thinking. You must go BEYOND POSITIVE THINKING to get rid of the "Saboteur Within". I call this "Right Thinking". It is right because it is based on truth, not illusion.

 Thank you Maria
 
Jade 12   

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From: eternalchoicesSent: 8/14/2007 9:58 PM
i am not sure why this keeps happening to me. perhaps it ties all together nicely with what i have to learn to get to where i need to be in my life.
thanks for the insight, and advice on how to change our negative "self talk".
you are so right.
change the thought, change the feeling, change the outcome.
thanks again for the help in changing for the better.
eternalchoices