Great post Mayfair.....i will never forget the "suicide" as i will never forget certain members lobbying against someone because the deemed them "dangerous".....or really.....just didn't like them.....and wanted others to feel the same way.....

 

 

That is exactly what some of us were doing in this thread.

This must have been quite the hot thread for the last few days.......oh my

 

I'm sure everybody has read it. This is not a surprise to me.  There has been so much distrust on these boards, too live in fear... seems to always brew paranoia.

 

The reason for such offensive seems justified, however, the behavior is suspect. Is it the scorn of a love interest, which has been done to death, or the sincere warning of a possible danger, which at that point really didn't matter, as he would clearly have quite a little file o information, so to wait a day to clear it up would have seem prudent. You really do need to post at your own risk, it's the Internet folks.

 

Lizzie now has grown from a teen girl to a late teen girl on her way to young lady, and then on to a Lady, which is why there is concern.  I always felt a little uncomfortable with Lizzie's relationship, I guess cause I just felt she was too young for something like that, but then again I care for her, well like an Uncle or something, or better yet, queer uncle Jella......lol  I've watched these kids grow just as long as ya'll, it's been a treat to see them as they progress.. If it was calculated then that is not very becoming, and with the bonds that are formed in a group of friends you take their word for it, so most really don't give a shite, as I don't because I'm sure the dude doesn't. Had it been someone whom had interacted, things may have been handled a bit different. Chalk it up to a learned lesson and move on. That however, is not what made this thread hot.

 

Trusting, proving, documenting, and talking trash.  Now I know I've been burned for trusting, but I also don't like a person that could be so vindictive that they would deliberately disparage someone, it become a notch on a persons character, and it seems those notches due add up to an end of respect. We seem to give up a lot of those along the way to becoming a person. It's a bump in the road, or hiccup, but I guess that's what it takes. Users are in abundance, and they don't all have nuts. It's a discredit to a young person to condone that sort of behavior if you really do care about them. So do you trust, and not question, or seek the real truth. I've watched so many friends in the past do that, but you look away because their your friend. I've always found a way of making my point, an it usually came when they were bitchin about how much they were burned to me. I can only take so much.  These are the sort of trust issues that due to not only our experiences with the boards and folks, but the people we've know in our everyday lives. 

 

 As friends we expect nothing but full allegence....... SA:LIUTE.

 

Unconditional love god dam it! Tell me that I'm not the bestest singer on AI.. They just don't know goooood talent!

 

 

Move on... we know whom the biatches are on these boards, those with nuts included, and we all know because we say so. We need this now and then apparently to point these things out.

 

I thought the witch picture was......

 

EPIC

 

 

 

ha HA!

 

Nitety nite, Lav!