I was a sucker, when I was single in my younger years, I was terrible at saying no. I would always do the fake number, or be really nice until I slipped out of the club without being seen. It was very hard to just say, oh hell no. I feel bad for someone who puts themselves out there. I have some girlfriends who are terribly mean turning someone down, and unless they are skeezy or rude about it, its not like a big deal to just say no thanks, or Im with someone. |