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From: MSN NicknameGrandmat36  in response to Message 2Sent: 10/13/2008 10:04 PM
This is very sad news Rean....I hurts my heart to hear this especially when they are so young. It seems like children are stronger than adults at times, and they have virgin hearts. They are the ones going to be with God,  yet they worry about how their parents are going to cope with their death after they are gone....it makes me sad when I hear this because it reminds me of my friends little boy who passed away from cancer at the age of seven. I can't count the number of times I heard him consoling his mother by telling her it was alright and that he wasn't afraid. When he was nearing his last days, I remember him sitting on a blanket on the floor pointing towards the window asking us if we could see God.  We couldn't believe what we were hearing because he had been blinded by the cancer so he couldn't possibly see anything. His mom instantly started crying and he told her not to because there were angels waiting for him and they were beautiful. To this day I believe he saw what he saw. I can't even remotely imagine him being able to make something like that up.... especially with him being as sick as he was. I will never forget that day! Prior to his death they had put him on life support like Sherry's son James, and my friend had them take it out because she wanted him to go peacefully and free of all the tubes. He died shortly afterwards, and when he did he looked like he at peace like she had hoped for. It was a decision she made that she knew she would have to live with the rest of her life.....and it's one she has never regreted!


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     re: Cancer   MomOf4  10/13/2008 11:23 PM