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| | | From: cher (Original Message) | Sent: 12/22/2007 5:04 PM |
tihs time of the year is harder to cope with i cry everyday,my son died nov 13th and nov 12th was his brithday,ts been 9 years and its still very hard.they say time heals i dont think so.  |
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Dear Cher,
i don't think so either, i am sorry you are so sad, i am sorry i am so sad. Someone said to me. or i read it ( my mind is mush and i often say it went with Timothy) anyway it went like this " Time does not heal a damn thing but what you do with that time can help you to live with less pain" Thats what i figure now,,,,,
( maybe i said it!!) well that is what i am trying to do. I cry every day, my sinuses are wrecked, the closer it gets to Christmas the worse i am feeling, i had to travel this year to my mum;s house and i had my cards sent here from this group because NO ONE here gets how i feel. There is nothing i can say or do to make any of us feel "better" but please know that i care about how you are feeling and i do "get it"
Big hugs and boy do i wish we could all just get together this year and be with others that understand.
Love
Annie ( 21mths without my gorgeous boy and i can't stand it) |
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| | | From: cher | Sent: 12/22/2007 8:53 PM |
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thank u so much 4 writeing me back and 4 yur concern,that’s ture its what u
do with yur time,but sometimes ill be just sitting and thinking I should
have done this I shoud have done that when my son was here. he died of overdose,
and when there on drugs u don’t see them to much cuz they dont
want to be around the family.
but I finally left it in gods hands,and I know he took him 4 that reason
cuz he knew if
he was still here he'd be using.
you have a nice christmas, and happy new
year!
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| | | From: MomOf4 | Sent: 1/18/2008 5:26 PM |
No, time does not heal.....it is how we choose to use that time that brings healing. Your loss is so recent that you have not had enough time to even begin to heal. Keep coming here and posting. It does help to share. Love and hugs ...Rean |
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May God hold you REAL tight! (HUGS) Cindy |
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