Dear Nancy...I am so sorry for the terrible accident that took your precious Bobby from you...I do have to say, though, that I admire your strength..I know that it must have been very difficult for you, to know that you could have pressed charges, but didn't.  For that I do commend you.   That would not have brought Bobby back to you, and as you said, that young driver did not cause the accident on purpose, and has to live in guilt for what happened.  That is probably punishment enough.

Thank you for sharing your story with us...and for the opportunity of getting to know you and Bobby.

Love and hugs.....Rean

(My son's name was also Bobby)