Dear Dianna....Yes, it does hurt! It hurts like crazy! It is the worst kind of hurt that anyone can experience. Your loss is so recent....it has not even been 2 months since you lost your precious little girl. It is not easy getting to the point where you can cope.......I would say give the things away to someone who needs them...but, that would be hard and you probably could not do that just yet. Would you be able to just pack them away in a box and put them up somewhere....would it be to hard to do that....I don't know.......Probably the reason you feel that no one in the family understands is because they probably really do not understand because they have never lost a child of their own......that's the only way that anyone can understand........Maybe someone in your family, or a good friend, could come over and help you to pack up her things.....or maybe do it for you......
I wish that I had some answers for you....but, the truth is there are no real answers. I do know that talking to others who understand does help to get through the pain on the most difficult days......Please, please, keep coming here and at least sharing your feelings.....even if we don't have answers, we at least understand and we will listen. And, sharing does help with healing.
I pray that God grant you comfort, peace and gentle healing.
Love and hugs....Rean
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