That sounds like very good advice, Susan. I had not thought of doing it that way. I guess maybe because my son was not a baby when he died...he was older and I did not have to deal with cleaning out his room. Although the pain is the same no matter the age of our child.....it is true that the things we have to deal with may be differrent.
I am glad that you came here today to talk with Dianna.
Hugs to both of you....Rean