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This Weeks Topic : Why?
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From: MSN NicknameNancyakaMamaKass  (Original Message)Sent: 4/24/2007 3:38 PM
The day that I decided that the WHY was not important and even if you know that answer it does not change the outcome....
 
That was the first day of my healing process....still have a long way to go but do not torture myself with the WHY anymore
 
Nancy JO


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From: MSN Nicknameanniewhits58Sent: 4/25/2007 10:06 PM
I still say why a year later.

I start with...Has this happened? Yes i think it has! How did this happen?.................. So i guess How and Why are the same.

Love
Annie

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From: MomOf4Sent: 4/26/2007 8:27 PM
I had never thought of it that way...I gues you are right, we may never know the 'why' and if we did, what good would it do.   It would not ease our pain....

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From: MSN Nicknameanneg622Sent: 11/12/2007 1:10 AM
I agree the "why" wont change anything..But at the same time, I've been walking around in a daze for 2 weeks since I lost my daughter asking everyone, God, my boyfriend, my friends, my doctor..all WHY? I think without knowing the answer makes it more painful.. It's still early and I may get one, but your right, it won't change the outcome..:(

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