Child Loss -- Greiving with the family

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What, if any, regrets do you have? Hugs...Rean No Regrets Regrets can never be fully erased, yet they can be prevented. One day soon you'll look back on today. Whether you look back with regret or with satisfaction depends entirely on what you do right now. This moment right now is in your hands Though there are plenty of circumstances beyond your control, thoses things do not matter nearly so much as the things you can control. Your thoughts and your actions. Though the future is uncertain, one thing about it is abundantly clear. The more positively and completely you make full use of the present, the more positive options you'll create for yourself no matter what the future brings

Imagine yourself looking back on today from some point in the future. What will you wish you had done? Now is your one and only opportunity to do it. What will you regret? Now is the time to prevent those regrets? Rather than setting yourself up to wonder "why didn't I?" work to put yourself in the position to say " I'm glad I did"

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hi there i just wanted to say this is beautiful and sad at the same time.your family with a good looking family .

sandy. heartandsoul6042.

I try really hard to live my life to the fullest each day. But, I still think that since we are human.....we all will have moments that we look back on and wish perhaps we had done something differently. It is these regrets that can rip your heart apart during grief. I try hard though to give them to God.......my faith is deep. I've been fortunate that my faith has not waivered during this time...but only become stronger. I don't believe that God created cancer and wanted our precious little Rachel to suffer with it......I believe He cried with us and promised us that He would care for her when she went home to him. for that i'm so grateful and it makes any regrets a little easier to bear.

Now.....every single day I wake up thankful for a new day...even though some are hard to get through......but, i know Rachel would have loved each day....she always did! Other days i wake up and think that this would be a good day for the rapture to happen..........everyday is just so different on this road of grief.

So.....regrets......I have a few......then again......I have more blessings to count..........

Live each day doing what you think should be done........doing what you can look back on and think..."I'm so glad I did that!" instead of "I wish I would have....."

It's hard sometimes........but with God's help......I can do it!

I have to....... (HUGS) Cindy

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