Dear Mary...I am so sorry that your boy friend feels that way. Unfortunately, loosing a child does put a terrible strain on even the strongest of marriages. And, sometimes, it tears the couple apart. I hope that you are doing better by now. Taking the pictures may take him from your sight, but, nothing can ever take him from your heart. If putting the pictures away, at least for awhile, helps you to get by, then that is what you should do.
Keeping you in my prayers for peace and gentle healing.
Love and hugs...Rean