Dear Andrea...I am sorry so long in replying...I just now saw your post.
I have to say that no I have not had any nightmares about my Bobby. In fact, I have only had one dream about him in the 7 years he has been gone...in the dream,he was just standing there with his arms crossed, smiling...he did not even speak....I think he was trying to tell me that he was ok and to let me know that it's ok to let go.
I wish that I had an answer for you. Some might say that you had the nightmare because deep down inside you feel guilty...and I know that you have said before that you do feel guilty. But, my dear hurting friend.....guilt implies that you did something wrong...and you did not do anything wrong. If loving our child beyond comprehension is guilt...then we are allguilty of that.....
Keep coming here and venting...it does help.
Love and hugs...Rean
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