Having been through a divorce, though not as bitter as the one you describe here. Though my children are now adults I have not seen my son & two daughters since 2000. I wasn't invited to my daughter's weddings and my son I learned wants nothing top do with me and I can't find out why. Two years ago this coming Father's Day I received an e-mail from my youngest daughter who lives on the East Coast stating she had been looking for me for two years. She told me her oldest sister and brother have stated they want no contact with me. My youngest daughter and I still keep in contact with each other. Its sad but my ex-inlaws & ex-wife have done a lot of damage. So I do understand to some degree what you all are experiencing. Yet one must be thankful for what we do have. My prayers are with you you and your family. skypilot |