Hi Chip,
I love music also. It has been a part of my life from a very young age. The LORD had allowed me to play the guitar, bass and even the harmonica a tiny bit. Also to lead a choir and teach them to train their voices etc..
However I do agree that God can use different instruments for His glory, still, I cannot and will never agree that the tempo and sounds that sound carnal will glorify God. If it sounds carnal and worldly it doesn't glorify God but only the flesh.
I realize all may not agree and that is fine but just as we Christians need to act, walk and talk and dress differently to portray that Christ lives in us, the music we play or perform or listen to must be different too.
Brother Steve