MSN Home  |  My MSN  |  Hotmail
Sign in to Windows Live ID Web Search:   
go to MSNGroups 
Free Forum Hosting
 

Important Announcement Important Announcement
The MSN Groups service will close in February 2009. You can move your group to Multiply, MSN’s partner for online groups. Learn More
Divas....40 & OverContains "mature" content, but not necessarily adult.[email protected] 
  
What's New
  
  ♥♥♥♥♥DIVAS BOARDS♥♥♥♥♥  
  
  General  
  
  Aging Gracefully  
  
  All Posts  
  
  BeautyTalk  
  
  Books  
  
  ♥Computer Talk  
  
  Crafts/Hobbies  
  
  Daily Hugs  
  
  Friendly Debates  
  
  ♥Fun Links  
  
  GamesPuzzles  
  
  Gardening  
  
  Grandchildren  
  
  Hotcakes  
  
  Health/Medical  
  
  HolidaySnagsPlus  
  
  In Memory Of....  
  
  Jokes  
  
  ManagersUpdates  
  
  ♥Meet The Divas  
  
  MiscCleaningTips  
  
  Military Talk  
  
  Pet Talk  
  
  Popular Threads  
  
  Post Something  
  
  PrayersThoughts  
  
  QOTD Quizzes  
  
  Recommend a book, music, Movies  
  
  Relationships  
  
  Recipes  
  
  ♥SnagShare  
  
  Spa ExerciseDiet  
  
  Stories, Poems  
  
  TV Shows  
  
  Venting  
  ♥Latest Diva News♥  
  ♥Share Special News♥  
  ★Celebration Days★  
  ♥¨Years as Divas  
  ♥DivasYearsCelebrationLinks  
  ♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥  
  ♥Welcome Newbies  
  ♥Divas Tutorials  
  ♥Divas On Leave  
  ♥Board Rules♥  
  ♥Copyright  
  ♥Introduce Yourself  
  ♥Birthdays/Anniversary2  
  ♥DIVAS HOMELAND  
  ♥Divas Years As A Member  
  ♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥  
  ♥WWO  
  ♥WWO Pickup  
  ♥Member info for Siggies  
  ♥RequestBabsSigs  
  ♥PickupBabsSigs  
  ♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥♥.·:*¨¨¨¨*:·.♥  
  ♥Divas Seach Site  
  ♥Hide e-mail addresses  
  ♥ Divas Info NEW  
  ♥For All Members  
  Pictures  
  ♥Daily Reminder  
  Documents  
    
  
  
  Tools  
 
Friendly Debates : How do feel over the MySpace issue ?
Choose another message board
 
     
Reply
 Message 1 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231  (Original Message)Sent: 5/17/2008 12:14 AM
In October 2006, Megan hanged herself after corresponding with who she thought was a boy on MySpace chatting. It turned out to be a Mother down the street. The courts have now charged her with the crime.
 
 
How do you feel over this?
 
Is the girl who hanged herself unstable or was she driven to this by chatting on MySpace?
 
Who should be responsible for this death?


First  Previous  2-15 of 15  Next  Last 
Reply
 Message 2 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameabsolutelystumpedSent: 5/17/2008 1:05 AM
I think what the mother did was unconcionable.
She deserves punishment in the form of community service and lecturing on the consequences of her actions.
I don't think jail time would serve a purpose. Unless she is a total  sociopath, she must have learned a lesson.

Reply
 Message 3 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamejacki3Sent: 5/17/2008 10:24 AM
as far as i am concerned that girl was more than unstable...a nut case..and i don't think the mother should have been charged

Reply
 Message 4 of 15 in Discussion 
From: jewelSent: 5/17/2008 1:15 PM
they did say that the young girl was having some issues..... but I think it is awful that an adult would knowing treat another human being, epsecially a young girl, like she did...

Reply
 Message 5 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameBernadette26_5Sent: 5/17/2008 9:09 PM
What kind of adult does this to a child? If this is how she acts as an adult can you imagine what she was like as a child?
Teens are notorious for overacting and thinking everything is the end of the world but that is part of the maturation process . . . anyone who has dealt with kids knows this. I think this woman should be held accountable for her actions but I am not sure a stay in a correctional institution is appropriate. I think lots of counseling and commmunity service might be in ordered.

Reply
 Message 6 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameCC20010Sent: 5/17/2008 9:51 PM
OMG! This woman was probably a bully as a child.It's true the girl was unstable,but a mature compassionate person shouldn't torment her.I think the mother should be thought of as a preditor & held accountable.

Reply
 Message 7 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameHeavyGingerSent: 5/17/2008 9:53 PM
I think that woman should be punished.If that girl were her daughter she would know how it feels.

Reply
 Message 8 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231Sent: 5/17/2008 10:56 PM

The woman charged was an adult and knew better. She broke many internet rules and should pay for the consequences of her actions. Her actions caused the girl to commit suicide regardless of the girls mental stability.

 

FBI agents in St. Louis and Los Angeles investigated the case, Hernandez said.

Each of the four counts carries a maximum possible penalty of five years in prison.

Drew will be arraigned in St. Louis and then moved to Los Angeles for trial.


Reply
 Message 9 of 15 in Discussion 
From: mstrebks1Sent: 5/17/2008 11:03 PM
I'm glad they decided to charge the mom. My kids are past the age I have to worry.  bonnie

Reply
 Message 10 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameSharynaWolfCatSent: 5/18/2008 12:19 AM
The Mother is a nut!!  But I don't think she's responsible for the teen's death.
 
sharyn

Reply
 Message 11 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameJoannie-10217Sent: 5/19/2008 4:38 PM
The teen had issues, thats for sure or she wouldn't have had suicidal thoughts. Her parents should have seen warning signs of unhappiness. They should be just as guilty for being so wrapped up in their lives, that they didnt notice the daughters personality changes.
The neighbor? well that is one sick puppy to pretend and lead a person on in this matter. Did this woman not have a life? And... whom else's emotions has she toyed with?
She doesn't need jail, she needs an institution with good doctor's and someone needs to find out where her head is at!

Reply
 Message 12 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameabsolutelystumpedSent: 5/19/2008 7:07 PM
Joannie,  as a person who was  very close to people who killed themselves, I think it is harsh to judge the survivors. There may very well have been signs but maybe not.
The ones left behind are grief stricken and don't need the added burden of people thinking they didn't do enough.
 

Reply
 Message 13 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231Sent: 5/19/2008 11:40 PM
Joannie- As a parent I agree they should have noticed something odd in their daughters behavior or obsession to use the computer so much.  I could always tell when my sons weren't happy growing up by their behavior. This is a sad situation for all.

Reply
 Message 14 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameJoannie-10217Sent: 5/20/2008 4:11 AM
About 3 yrs ago, my son attempted suicide. I'll never forget it. It was right after we opened gifts on Christmas eve. He left with his g/f and about 1/2 hr later the g/f came to my house, crying that she/he had a fight and he ran out and she couldn't find him. She said his reaction was odd and she was scared. We went riding around (he was on foot) and couldn't find him. We went to the police station and there he was. He went there for help because he found himself in local cemetary, trying to cut himself with old fencing. He didn't remember going there and when he realized what he was doing, he ran to the police. THANK GOD!
After thinking about it and not recognizing the signs of depression, (parent denial) I can recall the lack of laughter, the empty eyes, the emotionless personality. I could have smacked myself for not realizing he had a problem. How can I see so clearly in patients, but I couldn't see this in my own son? As I say, parent denial.
The point is, watch your kids, look for the slightest change, be open minded and don't think "not my kid".
My son is fine now, he had a full plate of stress at that time.
The point was made by Angel, where was the computer supervision ? This is exactly the reason parents need to watch, look, and listen!

Reply
 Message 15 of 15 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameDoe0807Sent: 5/27/2008 5:17 PM
I think the mother down the street should be held responsible for her actions. She lured the young girl, whom evidently had emotional issues, but she continue the ruse and then dumped her. The mother being of a legal age and presumed to be the mother of the girls friend was feeding on the emotions of the young teenage girl. She should have known better and since she knew who the girl was that she was communicating with should have shown some responsibility in informing the parents of the context of their conversations. I agree that a prison sentence may not be of the proper punishment, but she needs to take responsibility in her actions. I agree that public speaking, community service regarding her involvement would be a very effective way to handle this. ie: the young man that was drag racing and killed a mother & child because he ran a stop sign. He has been forgiven by the husband/father and together they tour the country telling their story.

First  Previous  2-15 of 15  Next  Last 
Return to Friendly Debates