Thanks again for the help on this,
Yea I think you are right there Oniero,it definatly has something to do with the 7th house,I also have a conflict going through the same houses, I think this often leads to feelings of me vs the world, especially with mars involved.

Moon conjunct South Node: Emotional vulnerability is accented in this person. They may be too protective, overly needy, very susceptible to the emotions of a mother figure or other family members. They may feel lacking in unconditional love. They may fear family, dependency, parenthood, roots or emotional connections. They find more safety and sustenance by establishing strong ties, getting and giving trust to others.