Yeah, I'm trying not to be ticked at dh but at the friend. I told him that I really think he needs to push this money issue, if not, I will contact the friend. Dh admitted that his friend should be more greatful (think youngest of 4 kids with his parents doing everything for him... spoiled much?! So, I'm assuming it's his attitude for life... give everything to me on a platter!) I also said that I know it's hard to say you would like some money now (it was brought up at first but nothing ever came of it... he's been doing this since end of Nov or beginning of Dec.) I told him if he wants to 'blame' me, I'm totally good with that cause to say my wife isn't pleased with this and doesn't like that it takes me 20-30 extra mins each night to get home from work, etc so she said I need to ask for money, etc etc. Of course, it makes him look weak but hey, I'd love to be able to use an excuse like that in some situations rather than just say, hey, I need the money, pay up.

 

And lol on the guy, you'd be hearing A LOT more about this situation if it was a girl. I'd have HUGE issues with that and have a feeling dh wouldn't 'get' why.

 

Doing good!! I've done very little.... wiped off the dr table, started chicken noodle soup (sorta) I'm going to throw Timmy in the shower while the kids are busy. He's got an awful poo that would be hard to clean with wipes and he got into hand lotion while I was in the bathroom this morning so his hair is a little, um, interesting. I haven't had time to wash it out until now.

 

Off I go! Hopefully I'll be on here later to drill a little better. Actually, I've got a few things I'll do.... quick clean of the upstairs bathroom, give Timmy a shower (he loves them), get the chicken noodle soup going (broth and carrots)