I know that I have made my husband out to be a horrible person once again, but he is not, it really is my fault. If I could stop making the same mistakes over and over again, he would be happier and things would be better. I also do not really feel like I have a bad marriage, it is overall a good marriage. I just feel so horrible when I let him down. That causes me to overreact big time. So I am going to try to make a list of things that upset him so I can check over it daily and try to avoid them. Most of these things I think are things that most people would have no problem remembering and getting right the next time. I cannot seem to remember things from one day to the next however.
Things I need to make sure to always have on hand:
- Trash bags (so he can use them, no one else is allowed to use them, I still believe in using paper)
- zip lock bags
- butter
- skim milk
Things that need to be done before he gets home from work
- general clean up
- dishes done
- dinner cooked
Misc. things I have trouble remembering
- Do not drain the juice from the rotel for cheese sauce.
There are more, tons more but of course, I cannot remember them. I will try to come in here and add things as they come up so I will not be always repeating mistakes.