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 Message 1 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknameshef©  (Original Message)Sent: 8/18/2007 5:16 AM
I just wanted to get your feelings on whether I'm just being one of those over-protective mothers or whether you'd be a bit wary.
 
Tim turned 18 six weeks ago. As you all know he's my only boy, and we are really close. A couple of months ago, he spent a couple of weekends at his older sister's place (Emma who lives in Hastings)
After the second weekend, he rang me and told me that one of her friends (who is 24) had spent a lot of time flirting and ....... well .......flattering and he'd slept with her.
 
She's now been ringing him during the week and picking him up after school, he's spent a couple of nights with her and he told me on Thursday that it's getting serious.
He ended his last relationship because his g/f was talking commitment and he wasn't ready to settle down to a long-term relationship.
 
I did say that I wasn't sure whether he should be getting into something permanent at this time, but as he pointed out, I was married to Dick at 17
 
 
 
Would you worry????


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 Message 22 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 10/30/2008 11:26 AM
mmm the lady im considering pulling a caprox with (smirk)  is a few years older than I. ^^ is nice to see others with similar situations doing well.

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 Message 23 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknameshef©Sent: 10/30/2008 4:40 PM
OOhhh come on brat- spill the beans. All us crusty old relics want to put in our two cents (or should that be ten cents) worth

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 Message 24 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamekarey64Sent: 10/30/2008 7:54 PM
Yeah brat.....................if nothing else, define 'few years'.

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 Message 25 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 10/30/2008 11:53 PM
*hides*    bit less than 5 years  so of course im redefining  relics  from anything older than me to  anything  older than her

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 Message 26 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 10/31/2008 1:30 PM
  not  sure if  she would get  cyber aunty approval,   might have to  see once we  find out how this   groups thing is  going to pan out

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 Message 27 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamekarey64Sent: 10/31/2008 7:33 PM
Well...... 5 years isn't so bad.  You're what?  20ish.  At 15 then 5 or more years is bad.   But by 18/19 it's whittled down - or up in this case. 
 
I'm trying to think why she wouldn't meet cyber auntie approval......
 
  • She's Minnie Elder?
  • She has 5 biological children already?
  • She beats you?
  • She maims small animals?
  • She thinks suicide bombers look cool?

I've run out of ideas........

 
 

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 Message 28 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameMing_the_Merciless3Sent: 10/31/2008 10:16 PM
Shes not one of these girls I hope?

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 Message 29 of 36 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 11/1/2008 1:11 AM
  • She's Minnie Elder?    =P  had to look up who that was.  no
  • She has 5 biological children already?     nope
  • She beats you?    nope ^^
  • She maims small animals?  nope
  • She thinks suicide bombers look cool?  hmmm no!

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    =P  n shes not one of those  girls either


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     Message 30 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN NicknameMing_the_Merciless3Sent: 11/1/2008 2:37 AM
    mmmmm
    I misread it.  Thought it wasMillie Elder.
    Who is Minnie Elder?

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     Message 31 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 11/1/2008 2:57 AM
    noo freaking idea there was random hits but  thats  not  her name  so  it didnt matter ^^   millie / minnie  came up  as   paul homes (sp )   daughter.

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     Message 32 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN Nicknamekarey64Sent: 11/1/2008 3:33 AM
    Sorry Ash - I get her name muddled up all the time - must be because the little P addled freak doesn't inspire any respect from me at all so I don't bother keeping her name straight - Pantha guessed right about who I meant. 
     
    As for you young man - as the answer was no/nope to all my really important issues then I'm not going to throw any tantrum..... probably. 

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     Message 33 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN NicknameheatherupnorthSent: 11/2/2008 10:46 PM
    When I started going out with Kirk I was 28 and he was 19.  We were only casual and knew it wouldnt work cos of the age difference, 22 years and 2 kids later and we are happier than most.  Numbers dont make a difference, attitudes do.  We had quite a bit of opposition back then too, people are much more easygoing about age diferences now than they were then.

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     Message 34 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN Nicknamekarey64Sent: 11/3/2008 6:23 PM
    I'm with Heather.  More or less the same age differences here and my 'ToyBoy Fling' has lasted 18 years and 3 kids. 

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     Message 35 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN NicknameOswald_BastableSent: 11/4/2008 6:35 AM
    Yes, I was 16 years older and it never caused any difficulties- a few raised eyebrows, though.

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     Message 36 of 36 in Discussion 
    From: MSN Nicknamepantherrr0Sent: 11/4/2008 6:42 AM
     thanks for the replies , is appreciated. Mmm be a few  eyebrows  raised  =P  not so much  for the  the  actual  age  difference  but  more because i can and often do look alot  younger than i actually  am.   Standing  joke is with shorts  n a pokemon t shirt i could pass as  12  and  get  childs  tickets to  things XD haha  yet i can rerember the trouble i had trying to to  convince you all i wasnt really  an old man =P

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