I've been making noises about it, but they aren't keen because the rest of their friends aren't.  Both have accounts where they have to accept a message before it will be displayed though which cuts out a lot of crap.  The thing is this freak tricked Jordyn into giving him Lulu's member name (so he could delete her from his list) on MSN,  when in fact, knowing she was younger, he tried to add her after talking to Jordyn.