Oh my gosh that is a horrible ordeal. I would never touch her hair ever again. Let her know that you feel you cant make her happy and this makes you unhappy too.
She will be back I guarantee it. She might have jitters but that is no excuse for her to put you thru this anguish. DONT TAKE HER BACK!!!!
You dont need emotional basket cases for clients.
Dont people realize that we put our heart and soul on the line trying to please them?
A friend of mine used to do this to me and I told her I didnt want to do her hair anymore because I cant take the emotional toll of waiting for her to decide if she likes the job I have done. After her other friends confirm that her hair looks good she decides she likes it too. After I explained to her the toll it was taking on me she understood and she doesnt do this to me anymore. She is one of my best clients now.
DONT TAKE HER BACK NO MATTER WHAT. This is a great opportunity to dump her because I know she will be back looking for you.
Donna