TURNING DREAMS INTO REALITY ----------------------------------- I know we all Daydream, and some of us predictive dreams, but these arent the ones I am talking about. ----------------------------------- What I am talking about are our hopes,goals and ambitions. We all have the ability to change these dreams into reality, So why don't we? For alot of us we are either set in our ways or too afraid of change, While for others it is because all our life we have heard; from family, peers etc, Saying that we are dumb, stupid, cant amount to anything, etc. This has caused us to have low self esteem, and doubt our abilities. And with the majority of us it is because we have from the begining set goals which are not obtainable,or unrealistic. Due to these factors. ------------------------------- We need to change this way of thinking; we need to start believing in ourselves and our abilities, we must not be afraid of change. How do we do this? We do this by making smaller goals which are obtainable sooner. example:::: Let us say that you need to lose 100 pounds, set the goal for 5 or maybe 10 pounds to start. This way when we have reached that goal, you will start to feel better about yourself, and know that you can do more. Also remember that just because we fail (this happens sometimes). Don't give up. Pick yourself up. And keep going.
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