its hard isn't it when you can see someones potential and they wont do anything about it?  Try to think of it as being a part of the journey in this life that he signed up for before he came here; he may have chosen to come here to get to know sorrow so that his next incarnation can be one filled with light.  To know one, you must experience the other. 

 

I would trust that he will be rewarded for this journey, either in this life, or in the next.....

 

Just a thought.

 

Love Erika xxxx

oh my....the first thing I thought was for you to buy him a gift.  A book called the power of intention by Dr. Wayne Dyer. 

His power of htought has overwhlemed him.  I feel that perhaps he has been let down too many times h=in his life that he now believes htat nothing will work for him.

Anyhow,

I send him many loving thoughts...

MArtine

May I add that you should also protect yourself from his negativity, I can see him dragging you down Kaleen, so remember to protect!

 

Polly xxxxxxxxxxxx

WEll if you can't give him a book, lend him a book.  It doesn't have to be this one, could be any inspirational book.

Kind of like "here, borrow this, It's a great read and mayh elp you with  few htings.  You can return it to me when your done".

Just a suggestion!

I agree that you should not get too involved with him directly.  Not because he is a bad person, I really feel he isn't, but if he has you crying for him on your way home?????

Not good.  It's very important to be able to sympathise and empathise and you are doing a wonderful job at that just becuase you are just being you, a caring person.

However, getting emotionally involved when someone has to make the effort to help themselves, is another ball game.  You can still help him, though do it in a constructive and less personal way...

take care and let us know how it all pans out with him...

 

Martine