Just thought I'd add......

 

Just got back from visiting my mom for breakfast and she saw him last night.

He  told her that he was given 2 little white pills that he couldn't swallow and then couldn't breathe.  When she told me her experience, I then understood that it really was him (as I had suspected) and he was showing me how he passed.  Anyhow, we don't know (fact) if this is how it happened, as he was in a hospital (doing very well, mind you) and he passed unexpectedly. 

 

Martine

 

Gosh Martine, Sorry to hear about so many losses around you at this time. All i can say is i have felt a spirit enter from Ant when laying asleep in bed just felt it push through my back. That was strange enough yet quite soft like a bubble. Your friend is new to the  levels of spirit energy so untill he learns to control his energy it may be a bit of bummpy ride. As you know hun we go when its our time everything is just the way its ment to be (even if we dont agree with how or when they pass) I am sure that you will help him as you have helped others with love and compasion. lol

 

Love Silver xoxox

I'm glad you know exactly what that was all about, as i can imagine that it would be very unerving.

 

Thanks for posting the update after speaking to your mum, and as Silver said, i know you'll help him in the light in your wonderfully compassionate manner.   We're here if you need alittle boost of energy or any healing sending as you do it honey.

 

Love Erika xxx

Today was extraordinary and as I have my husband and son behind me right now (waiting for dinner) I don't relaly have hte privacy to get into details, but I really need to today.  I will take you up on your offer Erika as I really feel we will need your help in providing us with some light ont his matter.  Will get back today  

I don't have anything to add Martine so I will just send a big hug instead, I am so sorry to hear of all your recent losses

  ((((((((((Martine)))))))))))))))

 

Love Nova xxxxxxxxxxxx

Awww sorry Martine, I've just found your post (thanks to Nova) I can't say I understand what happened to you that night but the first thing that did pop into my mind when I read about the 2 little pills is that one might have gone down the wrong way into his lung.  I don't know why I say this really but as Erika has already written if you need a boost of energy and any healing just hollah.

 

Polly xxxxxxxxxxxx

I'm just going to bed linda, so i'll send you lots of light and loads of love darlin' when i do my healing circle in a mo......

 

Love Erika xxxxxxxxxx

Now my mother has been able to see all of her life yet never accepted her gift (neither has my sister).  Today she was over with her best friend (and a distant cousin of the deseased's wife) and he came.  She began to channel him (now just to let you kow, my mother doesn't channel.  She doesn't anything because she just doesn't want to).  This was a completely unvoluntary communication episode with spirit on the part of my mother 100% that happened so unexpectedly that it isn't funny.  She began to hear hummin in her ear.  She asked us if we heard it and when we said no she started tearing in her eyes (fear).  She knew it ws spirit and then closed her eyes.  In her third eye (as a video being played in fron of her) she saw him and he was asking her for her help.  She began to cry.  He body went into spasms that she could not control.  He would come and go.  It was very draining for her.  Lots of tears becuase although she has often seen spirits, this was the first time she was brave enough to have a full conversation with him.  anyhow,  I coached her to call her guides to hold him back and filter what he needs to come thorugh.  They could not hold him back  completley but she could see a hand on his shoulder.  He is desperately trying to get through to her probably because he knows she can and knows that his wife would believe her.  Also with the backing of her friend (this lady's cousin) regarding this experience.  I don't think that the timing is right for my mother to reveal this to the wife as the funeral is still to pass. 

I knew exactly each time he was back as the room became cold.  My mom's friend almost fainted in fright (she is not into this stuff at all)

As I said, she has no desire to become a medium (eventhough she obviously has the ability to do this) and is so frightened that somehting like this will happen at the funeral. 

So am I and I really want her to be able to handle it, but I'm not sure it will be possible (if he decides to come thorugh so powerfully again) especially since my mother has rejected her gift all of her life.  DO you think life is trying to tell her she needs to follow through?  Just as an added note, she has begun to experince things for hte last three months. 

Please send my mom some strength and send some direction to this soul that cannot let go of his life. 

 

Martine

Martine, no wonder your mum is so scared. 

 

This is just my take, but I think that hte passed soul is stuck and has not gone to the light.  When someone crosses properly to their spiritual home, it takes about a year for them to be able truly reach us so clearly after their crossing.  There are exceptions, but in the main anything htis clear and this strong, and this disruptive to me seems like a soul that knows they have crossed bu thtat is fighting to move to the next level, preferring to stay close to those on the earth plane that loved them (or those that they can get through to), sort of like they are in a little bit of a denial about hteir crossing and not wanting to accept that and continue thier journey.  My advice is that you need to help your mum send him to the light.  I would think that your mum will resist this out of fear.  If I were in your shoes I would try and contact him myself, and ask the angels and your guides to help you to help him to the light to free his soul on its journey.  Its hard work, and it can take time, but time and love will resolve this on spiritual levels, and meditations and still reflection on practical ones. 

 

For your mum I would show her how to really really ground, how to make herself so heavy and dense that he won't want to connect to her as it will be too difficult for him.  Tree roots and lots of earth visualisations will help as well as wearing earthy colours and using sage to keep auras and rooms clear of the disturbing neergies that can come through. 

 

If you do try to send him to the light, remember that eating sweet things will help and of course drinking lots and lots of water - if you want to try in messenger, i can sit in messenger with you one evening or sometime on Sunday and hold the light and shine it brightly for you, i have done it before on a couple of occassions (from both sides of the fence), love and light will help this soul to where he is supposed to be, and the love will be felt by those that help him.

 

I snook in at work to say hi, and saw your post, and have rambled a bit, but I am here for you if you need help. 

 

Love Erika xxxxxxxxxxx

I just thought I'd add that I'm like a conductor for her.  The minute I am around her, strange htings like htis begin to happen.  I don't know if htis is hte work of her guides (so that I can talk her through) or if there is some connection in regards to the spirit obtaining energy.  When she was going through this, I called upon her guides and my own to hold him back and talk to him.  To relay any informaiton to us themselves that might be important for us to know, other than that, to help him crossover as his purpose here is done.  She did tell him to go to the light and he reufsed.  You are right in saying that he refuses to accept hs death.  THere are some personal things we later discovered that might be holding him back, however, these are htings that shouldn't be of concern to him as a spirit (as how his body was taken care of).  My mother said that he told her that he was upset that he was cremated.  Then all he kept asking for was help, however she did  not understand.  A month ago her father came to her and issued her a warning (You need to be careful).  A week later he returned to ehr with the same message, never elaborating.  I am wonderring if this message he provided her with has somehting to do with this situation now (as this man and my grandfater were close friends and neighbours for over forty years.  That is how my mother came to know him).

 

I will get back to you to let youi know how this all pans out.  I haven't spoken to my mom yet, when I do I will see if she had any contact lst night.

 

Martine