Thank you Nova , I always wondered who you worshipped  . as I think I said I have only been to a spiritual church once & that was over 20yrs ago on a spur of the moment thing , I had heared they were all cons but I have always felt a pull I also beleave I have witnessedtwo sighting . One was my  Grandfather Graham & the other was my sister but my husband keeps saying that it was probely my mind playing tricks on me  , Who knows but I liked what I saw