As someone who also very rarely remembers their dreams (but my memory is bad now anyway) I will certainly follow your advice,

Thanks Stacey,

 

Love Nova xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx  

 

Your right!  I did say CAN'T!!  I didn't even notice that, perhaps that is the problem, my conscious thought wants to remember and sense things but my subconscious for some reason is holding me back.

 

I think i have always had a self-doubting side lurking around in the background but i guess i'm on the right track to fix it......  positive affirmations from now on!

 

I'm going to try the Jade under my pillow, thanks for that suggestion.  I seem to recall a stone i saw once and the word dream came to mind when i look at it, unfortunatly i had no money on me at the time to buy it, it was called angel something?  can you help?

 

Thanks

 

Kerry x

 

 

 

 

Angelite! That was it, thank you so much for looking that up, they both seem relevant to me in other ways aswell as helping with my dreams so next time i see one i must see if it still "shouts out" at me!

 

 

Thanks xxxx

Hi,

 

I too am one of the lucky ones where i usually always remember my dreams the following morning, and can even recall them later on it the day, but then everyone says i have the memory of an elephant and never forget a thing lol.

 

One thing that I have realised is that my dreams that are more of premonitions are a great more detailed and although i am dreaming i am aware that it is a message if you see what i mean, it is much more detailed and my emotions always run much stronger, what i do find strange is how it is always a couple of days before the event that i dream of things, and sadly, it has so far not been great things, the two main ones that really still stay with me to this day, is the first one i had at 8 years old, where a lady in white came to me to say that my Grandad wouldnt be with me much longer, bearing in mind he was not in ill health, but two days later had a massive stroke and died, but i always had the feeling that i was told before hand almost to soften the blow when it actually happened if you know what i mean.

 

The second dream was back in December 2002 it was the 7th to be exact and it was the very early hours. My Grandad the one i talk about above came to me in a dream to tell me that mom was going to be taken from me, i can remember it so clearly i was crying and pleading for him to try and stop it and protect her, but he was calm at all times and kept saying she will be with me and i will look after her, i woke from the "dream" and was still crying, and sat for two hours after sobbing my heart out. Then at midday the phone rang and it was dad to say mom had a fall and was in hospital, her work had called him to let her know, I turned to my husband and said straight away we would loose her to heart attack or stroke.  When we arrived at the hospital mom had a massive stroke, she managed to stay alive for 5 days afterwards, but was never going to survive, the hospital doctors were amazed that she stayed with us for that long, she was barely able to talk but managed to say i love you one last time.

 

What i found was how amazingly almost easy if thats a word i can use to cope, whilst everyone else was grief stricken i was calm and level headed and knew mom was ok as she was with grandad, her dad. I never really grieved for her to this day, but thats because i know she is with me at all times.

 

I would love to know if there is anyway to open up further and if anyone else experiences anything like this, i dont know if it is psychic, coincidence or what but it really does make me feel comfort that there is more after this life.

 

Sorry if i have rambled lol, just my head is full of things and i tend to stuble trying to get it all out lol

Aww samantha i don't know whether to be sorry for your losses or happy that you still have a connection with your grandpa and mum, it's lovely when you knwo they are still around.

 

I haven't had experiences like that (as above i forget my dreams)  but even in waking hours i haven't had anything that vivid.  I just "know" that my friends and family that have passed over are there if i need them so i guess they know i don't need any more proof.

 

As long as it's helping you to cope with things better then its a gift!

 

Kerry x x

 

 

 

Stacy and Kerry,

 

Thank-you for reading my post, and so sorry if i rambled on a little also i tend to do that alot lol.

 

Another thing that i find helps me to open up, and im not sure if its an aid to me always remembering my dreams lol is amethyst, i have a huge collection of it as have always been drawn to that stone in particular and it has great spiritual qualities and energy around them, and i sprinkle lavendar over my pillow for relaxation too.

 

As i say it might just be coincidence lol but i find it a great aid with dreaming so maybe you will too?

 

Much love

Sam.x

Hi Kerry Sam and my sweetie Stacey..I read all your posts and it looks like you all have good ideas and good sharing!!!! I don't have anything to add as I am still getting my dreaming under control myself lol...Good job

Hugs Shining

Thanks sam, i have lots of amythest too, it's such a lovley stone to work with.  I also have a lavender linen spray which you get from Avon, i spray it on my bed and also over my patients at the end of a reiki treatment, it's very relaxing!

 

Thanks for your tip x